age 28. act like 18.

no wonder so many eligible, accomplished adult women still unmarried, forced into seclusion from the benefits of marriage, protects vulnerable women from harm. so what happen to women who r not given opportunity to be guided by respectable men? they end up being bitter n insecure n dats d horrible truth. but ppl dont speak of this ever-rapid trend. d society brush it off quickly, term it as "biasalah tu" scenario. here's d truth, its NOTHING normal abt it. cos its happening in many parts of d world. surprise2. in indonesia, men are known to drink away their life w their wife's hard earn $$$ by allowing their wives to migrate n work as maids in msia. in bangladesh, grameen bank lends money to borrowers, ±98% of them r women, committed in making change in their poor, worsening living conditions. want more facts? do ur own research, come back n we discuss tugede2

men's and women's limited capacity to comprehend and handle 21st century's rapid effects of globalisation+transformation surrounding them is rising. for men, its most prob attributed+stunted by watching too much pornography, wanking over FHM and enjoyin music vids w almostnaked ladies dangling themselves voluntarily. d amount of craving for a fake/model-like "fantasy" woman is most alarming. its not enough dat we have to deal and compete w body-perfect figures like RiRi and KatieP. now we gotha deal w immaturity? ahjoooo. this is what media and entertainment does to u. It distracts u frm d things dat r MORE important. distracts u & prolong d expected FULL maturity level and intellectual development. distracts us from whts more important for our own wellbeing and happiness.

what is happiness, success? it aint all abt $$, cars, power, chicks. The truth is plain, for the knowledgeable and learned ppl, whos aware of Who actually govern this universe.

"A recent survey of the top 100 Hollywood producers those people who determine what is played on the televisions and in the movie houses of America and much of the world revealed these attitudes: 93% of these top executives say they seldom or never attend religious services. 75% describe themselves as left-of-center politically. 80% do not regard homosexual relations as wrong. More than half said they do not regard adultery as wrong. Most importantly, two-thirds of these executives said they feel it is their job to promote these ideas their vision of the world through the media." http://www.unification.net/misc/21-women.html

eventho tv might be more appealing to younger audience as compared to working, older adults, this survey should at least be taken into consideration as the future generations dat r goin to be off the age, subsequently face d same probs dat we late 20s ppl do. cant we all just have lotsa fun [and] be mature+responsbile simultaneously? we are still children at heart. whoever says no is lying to themselves.

In britain, young adult girls in early 20s are seen to send naked pics of themselves to their male counterparts. why u ask? "cos theyre bored", i was told. my guy fren went on observing, enjoyin himself w d "fantastic" episode of his day(s). Now, imagine a diff scenerio, confronted and replied by a respectable man instead, >> "hey michelle, only knwn u couple wks. sendin me tis kind pics is quite[subtle approach] inappropriate. i respect women. in future, chud u try refrainin frm sendin it? cos ur worth so much more than u knw". there. is such leadership that hard to expect? O yes...y whud any guy at dat[in tis era, any] age wana address d issue like dat. dat just "aint cool" init?

virtues n qualities like honour, respect, tolerance & cooperation is lost in our minds.

at d end of time, 1 man will be forced to tc of 50 women at one time. how is it to say that we choose to be more dominant? is not not in YOUR God given nature to be dominant, taking control? so be one. take d necessary steps+efforts. so women and men alike can finally meet halfway. cos seriously, women are so easy to please. with d right words and right attitude, u can basically get ur wishes. there is nothing we cant/wont give, provided w d right direction. to balance it off, women must be reminded of patience and perseverance. if only one party[man] is willing to make d effort, itll still be an unresolved problem. women must learn how to please and support their partner, at all times.

not all women want to wear the pants in a relationship. given a condusive environment, women will nurture and shower their partner+offsprings with love and respect. no question about it. with strong leadership skills, giving guidance w subtlety, kindness and humility, aiming to only do good and right for each other, both sides will exceed the benefits that are worth fighting for. last, but not least, remind each other. ALWAYS remind each other. we humans forget. dats who are